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From Clutter to Clarity: Simplifying Life
from the Inside Out
By Nancy Twigg
When most people think of simplifying, the first thing they think of is
getting rid of clutter around the home or office. Cleaning out closets and
drawers is definitely a part of simplifying, but true simplification goes
far deeper than that. Clutter is much more than old magazines, outdated
clothes, and kitchen gadgets you never use. Certainly those things are
clutter, but from now on, think of clutter as any possession, habit, thought
pattern, attitude or activity that fits into one of these three categories:
* Anything you don't need or use anymore
* Anything that doesn't fit or work for you like it used to
* Anything that doesn't add value and meaning to your life as it once did
Under this new definition, clutter is anything that complicates your life
and stands in the way of simplicity. In the past, you may have only thought
of clutter in terms of stuff: those size 8 jeans you hope to wear again
someday or those unfinished projects in your garage. But let me share a
secret with you. These kinds of unwanted and unneeded material possessions
are only the tip of the iceberg! What about the multitude of commitments
that cram-pack your schedule? What about the thoughts that jumble your mind
and the spending habits that sabotage your finances? All of these things are
clutter too, because they cause chaos and confusion.
When you think of clutter in this new light, you begin to see what a
tremendous problem clutter truly is. You will also see that the root causes
of this ugly clutter make the clutter itself look tame. Think about it. Why
do you say yes to everyone who requests your time and services? Are you
afraid that people won't like you if you say no? Do you feel the need to
present a Super Mom image to the world?
What about those clothes you hold onto even though you know you will never
wear them again? Are you afraid that if you get rid of them you will need
them again someday? If you did happen to need them, do you doubt God's
ability to provide more? And if you have a tendency to spend more than you
can afford, ask yourself why you do that. Are you driven by feelings of
discontentment or the need for instant gratification? Are you afraid that if
you pass on a sale now you will never find a good price on that item again?
These issues go much deeper than just having a messy desk or disorganized
pantry. These are issues of the heart.
Clutter is a problem for anyone, but for Christians, it spells major
trouble. Clutter does more than affect us physically and emotionally; it
affects us spiritually because it keeps us from following Jesus fully. We
simply cannot make room for Him when so many other things are in the way.
The more we stay focused on the junk of this life, the less time and energy
we have to focus on the important mattersGod and His plans for our lives.
Have you ever tried to lug an overstuffed suitcase through a crowded
airport? Not an easy task, is it? No matter how hard you try, you simply
cannot move quickly and efficiently when you're carrying a heavy load. Think
of clutter as baggagephysical, emotional, and financial baggage that weighs
you down and holds you back. Clutter is the heavy load that keeps many of us
from maneuvering effectively through our lives. Our suitcases are filled
with all kinds of deadweight: habits we need to give up, attitudes we've
long since outgrown, activities and possessions that no longer serve a
reasonable purpose. If we want to lighten the load, we have to get rid of
some of the junk.
What keeps you from moving forward at a steady pace in your life?
Undoubtedly the things that slow you down are some kind of clutterclutter
you want to get rid of for good. Maybe you struggle with physical clutter
around your home. Try as you might, you cannot seem to get organized. Or
maybe you want to get a handle on your finances. You are tired of making
good money but having nothing to show for it. Or maybe yours is an issue
with time. You are tired of living at warp speed. You want to stop running
and start living.
Whatever clutter challenges you face, trust me when I say you can learn to
clarify your life by putting clutter in its place. I know because I have
done it myself. My biggest clutter challenge was not dealing with cluttered
living spaces or even cluttered finances. My challenge was to open up my
emotional suitcase and go through its contents carefully. When I did, I
discovered all kinds of clutter lurking inside. I found worry and doubt. I
uncovered a faulty self-image and an inability to set appropriate
boundaries. I even found an unhealthy preoccupation with what others thought
of me. It was a painful process, but necessary. One by one, I learned to
trade in these old clunkers for the more efficient models God offered.
I'm not saying I have it all together. Believe me, I don't. I'm not saying I
never face challenges. But I have come to a place of clarity and life is
much more pleasant now that I have. Is my life perfect? No, but it is much
more peaceful and purposeful. And isn't that what we all wantto live in
peace as we live out our purpose?
Nancy Twigg is an author and speaker who loves inspiring women to live more
simply. To learn more about Nancy's speaking and writing ministry, visit her
online at www.keepitsimplesister.com
Article Source: http://www.faithwriters.com <a href="http://www.faithwriters.com">CHRISTIAN
WRITERS</a>
Editors pick:
Here is a link to the movie
"The
HOPE" I watched this last night. I highly recommend you take the time to
watch this if you have any questions about God's word or Jesus. You can
watch it right from your computer. Our culture has lost it’s knowledge of
Creation, the Fall, God’s judgments, the true identity of Jesus, and the
redemptive plan that He began long ago to save a world lost in sin. The HOPE
clearly explains the way of salvation, chronologically, starting in Genesis.
This movie has it all! Quality / Clear biblical message / Multi-cultural. I
found this on a great site that is packed with information concerning
Christianity: www.ChristainAnwers.net
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